It was Frl Lavendar in the Hallway with the Lead Pipe

Posted: January 24, 2012 by Michele in family

Ever played Clue?  It was one of my favourite games as a kid, and I’ve enjoyed watching my kids learn to play it this last year.  I had even more fun putting together a life-sized clue party for Talia’s 11th Birthday Party . . .

It was almost cancelled due to our heat issues – where could we, at the last minute, move a party to, that required not one but FIVE rooms?  Thankfully, a phone call to our pastor saved the day, and Clue Mansion really took on Mansion proportions as the playing area covered a large part of our church.

We started in the “Ball Room” by fingerprinting the suspects and taking mug shots . . . one never knows when such information might be needed ;) :

Next, dinner was served in the “Dining Room”:

Of course, I hadn’t counted on the fact that the kitchen area would be far removed from both the “ballroom” AND the “dining room” (it wouldn’t have been at our house) . . . so I was very happy that Kevin was able to take over for me in the kitchen.  Even then, I sent the girls up to make “dinner conversation” while putting the finishing touches on the pasta & sauce.

After dinner, we headed back down to the Ball Room . . . only to find the presents missing and the area marked with crime scene tape.  No one else had been in the Mansion . . . who could it have been??? . . .

Cards were drawn, binders were distributed, and the game of clue was on.  A large dice with a different room on each side moved the girls from room to room to make their accusations, and the girls carefully guarded their evidence:

. . . until the mystery was solved, the gifts returned – and the cupcakes eaten.  The offending party got a “get out of jail free” card and a set of “keys”. . . and she was quickly forgiven as the gifts reappeared ;)

Here’s the clue crew . . .including Cpt. Navy, Judge Jonquil, Mlle. Jade, Sra. Khaki, Dr. Gray, Miss Teal, Frl. Lavendar, Col. Ketchup & Ms. Magenta . . . the only one unable to make it was Prof. Mandarin:

(I have to admit, I always find Talia’s guest lists fascinating.  She invited a couple kids from school, a few from church, one from the neighbourhood, one from camp a few years back, even one she had met at Missionsfest last year . . . and of course, her sister.  Many of these kids only ever see each other at her birthday parties – but they all got along great and seemed to have a lot of fun with each other!)

Kaisa’s First 8 K!

Posted: January 21, 2012 by Michele in eMi, family

In the midst of everything else last weekend, there was a x-country race to run :)   We had actually scheduled Talia’s birthday party AROUND the race . . . Talia didn’t want to wreck her streak of 8 K runs.  The big surprise though, was that Kaisa decided to run the 8 K too:

Daddy ran with her, and she finished in a very respectable 54 minutes.  The actual distance for this course was closer to 7 K, but still – it’s the longest distance she’s ever run – either road race OR x-country – and she was excited to surprise me with the news when she got home.  I’m usually out there cheering, but this time I needed the time at home to finish last minute party stuff (especially since we had JUST realized we’d be transplanting the party) – I’ll get party pictures up soon.  I will say, that between an 8 k, a birthday party, and an unexpected sleepover . . . Kaisa was pretty tired by the time her head hit the pillow!

On running news, though, we recently confirmed that Engineering Ministries International is an official charity for the Calgary Marathon Charity Challenge again this year.  Kevin is already registered for the marathon and Talia for the 10 K.  Kaisa’s still deciding, but she’s leaning towards running the 5 K again.  Anyone else want to join us as part of TEAM EMI?  Race day is May 27th, 2012.

A New Appreciation for Central Heating

Posted: January 20, 2012 by Michele in family

We have heat!!!  After 5 days without a furnace, while temperatures plunged to -36 in Calgary, we have a renewed appreciation for central heating.  It’s amazing how sweet a sound a working furnace can be!

Last Monday (as in the 9th) we had the furnace guy in because our (still under warranty) furnace was – intermittently – failing to start.  Sears blamed it on the furnace not being serviced recently, charged us for a cleaning, proclaimed it fixed, and we commented how glad we were that it was taken care of before the cold weather hit . . . but alas, it was not to be.  The next guy installed a ground wire – that fix only lasted half an hour after he left – but the furnace was still working intermittently – we just had to reset it frequently.

And then, on Friday – before Sears had responded to our latest call – the resetting didn’t work anymore.  Friday, as the cold weather warnings for the weekend was the top news story.  Friday, as I was trying to get last minute things done for Talia’s birthday party.  Friday, as everything was closing up for the weekend. On Friday, we had no heat.

We called the Sears emergency number, and I’ll give them credit – they tried hard to get our furnace fixed that weekend.  But we learned that Sears doesn’t actually stock parts, and  Coleman doesn’t have a 24-hour emergency parts line.  They couldn’t do anything for us before Monday.

We very quickly became thankful for community.  Friends who provided firewood.  Friends who lent us space heaters.  Friends who took our kids for the night.  Friends who offered us a place to stay.  Our church even let us move Talia’s birthday party into their building at the last minute, so that I didn’t have to disappoint my daughter and her friends.

It was a bit of an adventure for a while. Kevin and I camped out on the living room floor and we discovered that our fireplace worked (we felt we had to stay at the house with that many space heaters running – and we couldn’t turn them off, otherwise the pipes would freeze).  The girls got a couple sleepovers with their friends.  Sunday – before we acquired some extra space-heaters – our house was the coldest; we couldn’t seem to keep even our living room above 14 degrees.  But the girls had plans that afternoon, so Kevin and I went out for a date.  Besides grabbing the stuff the girls would need for school the next day, we didn’t really spend much time in the house until after dinner.

We started Monday with high hopes.  The Friday tech called us at 8:15 to let us know he had the part in hand.  He was at our house by 9 a.m. to fix our furnace.  But he replaced the part and the furnace STILL didn’t work.  He went through his bag of tricks, and left with no clue as to why our furnace wasn’t working.  He told us his coworker would come take a look later that afternoon.

That’s when it started to get ugly.  The coworker came at 6 p.m.  He told us we needed two other parts.  Coleman closes at 4:30.  Another night with no heat.

The next day, a different tech came.  At 2 p.m.  Without the parts the previous tech had said were the problem.  He managed to get those parts, but by the time he got those installed and realized they weren’t the problem, Coleman was closed.  He needed another part that might make it work.  On a night that our church cancelled kids club due to the cold: another night with no heat, and no guarantees that we were any closer to solving the problem.

The next day the tech said he would be there by 11.  He arrived at 12:30. The part took a few hours to install.  We got a glimmer of hope in the afternoon . . . the furnace worked for 10 minutes before failing in what appeared to be essentially the same problem that we had started with before the furnace gave up completely.  Knowing that he wouldn’t make it to Coleman before closing time, the tech actually sent someone else to pick up a part and met her halfway.  If this didn’t work, we’d be spending ANOTHER night with no heat . . .

At just after 5 on Wednesday – 6 technicians after our first service call, and over 120 hours after our emergency call first went into Sears – we had our furnace back.  We unplugged our space heaters and left for our evening commitment half-afraid that we would come back to a quiet furnace and a cold house.  How sweet the sound of a working furnace!  Our furnace ran constantly for the next 5 hours, as the house slowly warmed up . . .  and it’s still running :) :) :)

Next, of course, is navigating through the process of compensation for things like electricity bills.  The lady at the Sears Call Centre that I spoke to this morning said she’d call me back by 5 p.m.  Care to guess if I’ve heard from her yet?

We’re considering filing a formal complaint on how the situation was handled – mostly because we don’t want anyone else to go through what we just went through.  Sears needs to – somehow – fix the process.  The Sears Call Centre person that I spoke to a few nights ago kept apologizing for the “inconvenience.”  I wasn’t sure that no heat at -36 C could be classified as an “inconvenience.”  We were okay – thanks to friends that supplied firewood, thanks to a husband who knows how to space out space heaters so that we don’t blow too many fuses, thanks to kids who are pretty good at going with the flow (and who have northern blood in their veins ;) ), thanks to flexibility at work that allowed Kevin to be home each time a new tech came to get them up to speed on the situation.  I’m SO thankful that this didn’t happen while Kevin was on a project trip – I don’t even want to imagine!

But through it all, we still had places to go to stay warm – whether in front of a space heater or to a friend’s house for tea.  I have to admit, I prayed a bit harder for the homeless this past week.  Frustrating as the process was, I knew we’d – eventually – get our heat back.  Yeah – I’m sure the drop in centre is warm – but it’s not full-time or long term.  I’m thankful for a place to live.  And right now, I’m especially thankful for central heating.

Ein Guten Rutsch

Posted: January 11, 2012 by Michele in family

The German New Year’s Greeting wishes you “ein guten Rutsch” – basically, “a good slide” into the New Year. And we definitely had one! On Boxing Day we left Calgary for California – a Christmas present from Kevin’s parents that would take us to the snowbird park where not only they were staying, but also my parents, my aunt & uncle, and my grandmother. Our girls had 7 of their “grandparents” around for the duration . . . how much more spoiled can a kid get? We had a good balance of relaxation, exercise (that’s Kevin’s idea of a dream holiday ;) ) and fun – here’s a sampling of our wanderings:

Our makeshift Christmas tree:

Enjoying a walk in 1000 Palms (ignore the date – Kaisa’s camera is living in it’s own time zone ;) ):

Sharing a bit about Engineering Ministries International at the Snowbird Park:

Rock scrambling in Joshua Tree Park:

Hiking in Painted Canyon:

New Year’s Party at the Park:

A surprise early birthday party for Talia:

A visit to Sea World:

And a visit to the San Diego Zoo

In between, Kevin got some runs in, we spent tons of time at the pool, we found some geocaches, and played a few games of Tuck.  We came home on a Friday and still had the weekend to relax before getting back into the swing of things this week.

Now everyone is back at school and work, and it feels like the New Year is almost old news.  But since we haven’t said it yet: Happy New Year.  May 2012 be your best year yet!

Gifts of Hope

Posted: December 19, 2011 by Michele in eMi, family, missions

Have you ever given “alternative” Christmas gifts . . . you know, the goats and school desks and clean water projects and the like?  We were introduced to them years ago, when Talia & Kaisa’s aunt & uncle gave a piglet in their honour (and then gave them a few pig-related dollar store items to remind them of the gift.)  They absolutely loved it!  Last year, we each received an MCC gift from Kevin’s parents – and they were perfectly chosen to suit us.  Kevin’s had to do with clean water, mine with international students, Talia’s with books & education, and Kaisa’s with housing in Africa . . .

This year, we’ve chosen to use some of the money we had set aside for giving to do gifts in honour of some special people in our lives.  The kids poured over the catalogues to find the best matches to fit the recipient and our budget.  It really was a positive experience all the way around . . . focussing on what we love about the people we’re giving the gifts too, and how we can make a difference in the world.

Need a last-minute gift?  Here’s a few of the alternative gift sites that we checked out and would recommend:

MCC Gift Catalogue

Samaritan’s Purse Gift Catalgue

Opportunity International Gift of Hope

Hope International Gift Catalogue

Partners International Gift Catalogue

Of course . . . you can always give the gift of a good design through Engineering Ministries International too . . . we don’t have a fancy catalogue, but the gift builds the capacity of ministries around the world.  Might be just perfect for that engineer or architect on your gift list . . .

Have you found any great sites for alternative gift giving?  Feel free to share links.

The Advent Season

Posted: December 14, 2011 by Michele in family

I haven’t posted since November 18th??? Really?  Although, I guess since I just finished uploading my NOVEMBER photos to facebook, I shouldn’t be too surprised.  No, we haven’t disappeared off the face of the earth.  But no, I haven’t yet posted those Ghana updates.  No, I don’t have my Christmas Cards out yet.  No, I’m not done my shopping and my presents aren’t wrapped yet. . . . so what have we done?  I’ve been trying to figure that out as I’m now uploading DECEMBER photos to facebook.  Let’s see:

  • Prepared Advent Calendars for the girls
  • Enjoyed a cookie decorating & craft party at a friend’s house
  • Ran the Okotoks X-country (8 k for Kevin & Talia, 4 k for Kaisa)
  • Decorated for Christmas
  • Talia did the Advent Reading at our church
  • Built a snow fort in the Backyard
  • Attended the Teddybear Toss Hitmen Hockey Game with the Interns
  • Found out Talia won the prize for a library contest she entered :)
  • Had the English Corner Christmas Potluck
  • Introduced the eMi Interns to curling
  • Did some Christmas Shopping
  • Did some Christmas Baking
  • Had our own impromptu Christmas Cookie Decorating Party part 1
  • Said good-bye to our homestay student
  • Sang for the Church (Kaisa & Talia with the rest of the SS kids)
  • Had our own impromptu Christmas Cookie Decorating Party part 2
  • Attended the JLC Christmas Party (Talia)
  • Created teacher’s gifts
  • Attended the Pioneer Clubs Christmas Party (Talia & Kaisa)

Of course, since school ends late this year, all the regularly scheduled activities have been on-going too.  And believe it or not, our busiest weekend is yet to come . . .

It’s a good thing I enjoy all the hustle and bustle leading up to Christmas.  I always wish there were more time – there are so many fun things to do this season.  What special things do you do in the time leading up to Christmas?  How do you turn the advent season into a time of preparing to celebrate the birth of Christ?

Let it Snow . . .

Posted: November 18, 2011 by Michele in eMi, family

The cooler temperatures that have been threatening finally arrived in Calgary overnight, along with some snow.  It definitely feels like winter out there!  It’s supposed to warm up before the end of the weekend . . . but for now, we’re definitely foreseeing a few inside days.

It’s not the first snow fall though . . . the first one arrived just in time for our Dessert Evening a couple weeks ago!  We actually moved the eMi Dessert Evening up a month in hopes of avoiding the blizzard that we had last year . . . but no such luck. Thankfully, the roads weren’t too bad by evening, and about 90 people came out to hear more about Engineering Ministries International and to bid on a bunch of really neat international items.  I think the fiercest bidding was on the kids table . . . the kids all hovered by the table so that they could make sure they weren’t outbid!

Here’s an album of photos that were taken at the Dessert Evening . . . it was a great night!  (And while you’re there looking at pictures, take a minute to “like” the eMi facebook page . . . )

Since the dessert evening, we’ve had another x-country run, a Junior Lifesaving Club competition, a lantern parade, a few play dates, and all the regular weekly activities.  One fun twist – I got to help the Pathfinders – that’s Kaisa’s group for Pioneer Clubs – go geocaching and then hide their very own geocache.  A bunch of cachers have found it already, and, since this cache is on church property, we’re well set up to do geocaching with other groups in the future.

In the next few days, I’m hoping to share a few more of Kevin’s Ghana reflections . . . maybe thinking about Ghana will help us stay warm . . .

 

 

Happy Birthday, Oma & Opa

Posted: November 3, 2011 by Michele in eMi, family, prayer requests

My parents both turned 65 this past week . . . and planned a joint party on Saturday to celebrate.  This was a great excuse for us to do a quick (VERY quick) trip down to the Okanagan last weekend.  What did we all fit into the weekend?  Way too much!

We arrived in Armstrong on Friday evening in time for a late supper with Kevin’s parents.  The next morning, Kevin’s brother and family came by, and the girls had a blast visiting with their youngest cousins.  After lunch, we headed to Penticton and got settled in.  Saturday evening was the party – I think there was only one other individual (other than Kevin) who didn’t speak German!  Talia & Kaisa were the only kids there – and they did amazing!

Sunday morning, we were sharing at Kaleden Community Church – the church that I grew up in.  We went out for lunch with my parents and another friend.  The afternoon was a bit quieter – the weather wasn’t cooperating, so the girls played games with Oma & Opa.  When it cleared up, we went for a walk along the beach, then headed back for a quick dinner – and over to my Aunt & Uncle’s house to visit with them, MY grandmother, and some cousins kids . . .

We had breakfast together with everyone on Monday morning, and then we were back on the road again.  We stopped for a bunch of geocaches (and a quick mini-snowball fight in Roger’s Pass) – and arrived home just in time for bed!

So we’ve got a short – but busy – week this week.  Tomorrow evening is the eMi Canada Dessert Evening & Silent Auction here in Calgary . . . it’s our big “event” of the year, and there’s always lots of last minute stuff to get done.  I’m amazed at the variety of goodies available at the Silent Auction . . . if you’re in the area, you won’t want to miss it!  Please pray for a good turnout and an evening that highlights what God has been doing around the world.

The Week in Review

Posted: October 27, 2011 by Michele in eMi, family, trips

With limited internet access, Kevin wasn’t able to email a lot of pictures while he was still in Ghana.  Today, the first task of the interns was to whittle down the hundreds of photos taken to a representative sample of the week.  You can find an album of 50 or so pictures – in a rather random order, but showing a glimpse of what the team did and experienced, here:

One of the interns also wrote a detailed blog post about her time in Ghana . . . so if you’d like the long version, rather than the snippets I’ve passed on from Kevin, you can find that here.

A few more Ghana reflections are yet to come . . . but a quick note to let you know we’ll be in the Okanagan this weekend, and we’ll have a chance to share at Kaleden Community Church on Sunday morning – you’re welcome to join us if you are in the area.

Understanding Ghana

Posted: October 26, 2011 by Michele in eMi, prayer requests, trips

Kevin arrived home safe & sound yesterday.  The five Canadian team members were flying through Calgary, so we all had a quick lunch together and then dispersed to various homes and connecting flights . . . pray for the team as they readjust to life in North America, especially in light of the poverty they’ve brushed up against in Ghana.

Kevin’s begun reflecting on the project trip and his time in Ghana, and over the next few days I’ll share a few of his reflections.  Today, a bit on how the project team attempts to prepare culturally appropriate designs:

As part of our project trip we spend a fair bit of time purposely immersing ourselves in the culture to try to grasp the culture and what the countries challenges are. The better we can immerse ourselves in our short time the better and more relevant our design will be. I’ve listed a few examples of some of the things we did in Ghana besides working on the design

  • Met with the local community bank manager to learn how the microloan and microsavings schemes were lifting people out of poverty
  • Met with the former education minister and the former sports minister several times to get their take on how issues in the community should be addressed
  • Met with the local ministry board to get their initial input and then reaction to the conceptual designs at the end of the week
  • Met with the traditional regional King to get him on board with the project.
  • Interviewed a local architect and 3 engineers about construction practices and costs.
  • To get a better understanding of the country we visited someone’s beach house, toured 2 hospitals, and a private clinic, visited a couple historic sites, visited several schools, and attended 2 different churches on the Sundays

Even with all these side trips, we still spent 9 hrs per day on the actual design. We rarely sat still. Hopefully our efforts to engage locally will yield a more well planned hospital site and will meet the needs for years to come.